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Best friend
Most everyone can point to an early friendship that forever shaped them. Besides my sisters, my earliest friends were Briony and Stacy....
Sep 28, 2017
Multifocal
Somewhere around age 40 I started to read the texts on my cell phone or the small print in my Bible like a trombone player. I would slide...
Sep 25, 2017


I Pledge
One of the first lengthy English paragraphs that our African-born son (sort of) memorized was the Pledge of Allegiance. All last...
Sep 12, 2017
Sea Change
I have an app on my phone that sends me a “Word of the Day” every morning around 8:00 am. For the most part, I’m already familiar with...
Sep 6, 2017
Just a regular Wednesday
There are some mornings when it doesn’t pay to get out of bed. Take this morning, for instance. I killed a wasp in my bathroom. Getting...
Aug 23, 2017


In the absence of hate
I feel sick. The constant news cycle. The pictures and videos. The soundbites. The unequivocal, unapologetic, urgent call for hatred of...
Aug 16, 2017
First day of kindergarten
Sending your kindergartener to school for the first time can cause an overwhelming flood of emotions. Sad, because he’s growing up too...
Aug 15, 2017


Middle Child Syndrome
I have the fortunate distinction of being the middle of three daughters. I can find the fortune in it now that I am an adult with healthy...
Aug 1, 2017


Doors and windows
Every year or so I get that home renovation itch. Sometimes the itch gets scratched with a couple cans of paint, but there are other...
Jul 25, 2017
Driving lessons
One of my 15-year old daughters just passed her “knowledge test” (a.k.a. driver’s permit test). Now comes the hard work of teaching her...
Jul 18, 2017


Driver’s Permit
Being a parent can feel like déjà vu sometimes. You get to experience some of the same things again but from a different perspective. For...
Jul 9, 2017


Strength to Grow
I’m always surprised at what plant life is capable of. After our week-long vacation at the end of June, we returned home to a veritable...
Jul 4, 2017


Collecting seashells
Beach vacation objectives can vary greatly, person to person. For some, the highlight is a sunset stroll along the shore. For some, the...
Jun 26, 2017
Sad
There are times when this thought runs through my mind: “I am killing it at this Mom Thing.” I make healthy meals. I sign up for PTO...
Jun 19, 2017
Summer Time (and why it shouldn’t be wasted)
Yesterday my 15-year old daughter approached me in the hallway of our home and asked me a question. With utmost sincerity and concern,...
Jun 17, 2017
Fire insurance
Several years ago, my family took a trip to Historic Charleston, South Carolina. For those in our family who are history buffs, it was...
Jun 17, 2017


Brothers
When our Congolese son Ezra came to live with us—me, my husband, our twin daughters, and our older son Knox—he entered a family who...
May 28, 2017


FREE
This morning, as I was walking around the back of the house after watering my flowers, I spied a lonely Cozy Coupe sitting forlornly by...
May 19, 2017
Ready or not
Before a recent soccer game, I overheard a conversation between two of my 6-year old son’s teammates. “Where have you been?” a little boy...
May 16, 2017


A good laugh
The following is a recent conversation with my 6-year old son, a newcomer to the English language: Ezra (from the backseat): Mom, konk...
May 8, 2017
Directions to connect
I’m not sure if I have a superpower, but I’m pretty certain among my superflaws—like Kryptonite to Superman—would be my abysmal lack of...
May 1, 2017
When there are no instructions…
When my twin daughters were 3-years old, I walked in the dining room (though we called it the “yellow room” because, obviously, it was...
Apr 26, 2017


Soccer fanatic
It would be an understatement to say that our 6-year old son Ezra loves soccer. His pet fish is named “Messi” after the Argentinian...
Apr 17, 2017


Whoop-de-doo
Soon after my husband Brent and I were married, my in-laws treated us to a trip to California. We toured the coast and visited all kinds...
Apr 10, 2017
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